Message: Went Anal Only For Myself, Gave Up My Clit For My Boyfriend

Anonymous: I’d never go anal only just to please my boyfriend. I do it because I love it. But I can’t deny I’ve given up *a lot* of clit stimulation just for him, because I know how he loves when I don’t cum. I’m lucky I can’t cum from anal!

That’s totally reasonable and fair, doing things like that for a partner aren’t for everyone, and usually I would strongly encourage doing things because you enjoy doing them. But there are those who get more enjoyment out of pleasing their partner than from the physical act itself. So if that’s the case, being anal only for a partner might be a reasonable option for that person. But doing it because you love it is great as well.

If you’re happy to give up your clit stimulation for your boyfriend, however, it seems you understand the pleasure of doing something that pleases your partner, even if it’s a different level of sacrifice.

My point, I guess, is that there’s nothing wrong with either of these approaches if they work for the people involved, and there’s also nothing wrong with only doing anal only or clit denial if it’s what you yourself enjoy.

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