Message: Boyfriend Wants to Try Anal With Me
Anonymous: Hey I am a 23 year old girl I love anal sex only or oral. I talked to my boyfriend and he also wanna try anal with me. Few days ago when I had first blowjob, his dick was really big from the normal size which I think will hurt me. I have been practicing with sex toys but not so much. What should I do? And can I go deep inside?
Keep practicing with toys and work to increase the size you can fit more and more over time until you are comfortable with things about size of his penis. The first time you try it with him, work up to his size immediately before with toys, then try switching to his penis. Push out as he pushes in, as if you’re going to the bathroom, to help relax your anal muscles further. Of course, use lots of lube. If it starts to hurt, just stop where you are and try to relax around him until the pain fades, then continue moving. Repeat as necessary until he’s all inside, then slowly start moving him in and out. Rub your clit if you need to, it can help you relax and enjoy the sensations when you’re first getting started with anal.
You can go as deep as you want as long as it doesn’t hurt. Don’t force anything, and if it starts to hurt, just pause a moment and try again more slowly while trying to relax. You don’t want to injure yourself, and pain is a warning sign that you might not be relaxed enough or “trained” enough yet to do something, but keep trying gradually and you can get there.
Good luck and have fun!