Message: First Anal Advice
Anonymous: What kind of advice can you give me for my first anal? (I am a girl)
Practice on your own first. Get to know that part of your body and work towards getting comfortable with larger penetrations. If you have a partner, after a few solo experiments, you might try doing some anal play together with fingers or toys. For most people, enjoyable anal takes a little bit of practice and familiarization first, plus the more you become familiar with what’s involved, the less tense and nervous you’ll be when you try it with a partner, which will also make things more enjoyable. Read through the Anal Advice category here for a number of other Q&As on preparing for anal.