Message: Anal-only for 5 years

I love these anal-only blogs!

I am a 35 year old woman in the UK and I went anal-only 5 years ago. I haven’t had many partners and when I was 30 I started dating an older man. I found his maturity much more to my taste, he was (& still is) more of a gentleman, taking care of me in ways that my two, much younger previous partners never did.

I have never had much vaginal sex due to suffering from vaginismus, which had always required a lot of patience to achieve penetration and led to men generally not bothering, particularly as I learned to give good head!

The first time I saw my older partner’s penis, I knew it was going to be a difficult – he was considerably thicker than any penis I’d ever previously managed to fit in my vagina, and that was even after hours of muscle relaxation. He did take his time and  persist though and I managed eventually to squeeze his glans in, but God, was it painful! I had to ask him to stop and offered to give him oral to relieve him. However, he said he actually preferred anal sex and why didn’t we try some, as it couldn’t be any worse! I’d never had anal before, but the idea was not abhorrent to me, so we gave it a go.

To my ever-lasting surprise, my anus opened for him almost too easily & in honesty, it hardly hurt at all, though it did feel a little unusual! For the first time in my life I had really vigorous sex and I absolutely loved it!

Afterwards, we talked about it and quickly decided we would be anal-only – he said he’d done lots of anal sex and had never experienced someone being able to accommodate him so quickly; I must, he said, be a natural!

It’s so much easier for me – no painful penetration, no need for birth control and he can take me hard whenever he wants me! I really don’t know why I didn’t try it sooner, I have never looked back from that day and it has changed my life.

I have also discovered bondage – I love to be tied for sex! My man trains my anus every night with metal stretching plugs, and I go to work every day with a glass penis buttplug in – he wants me to have what he calls a ‘brown-gina’, to turn my anus into a sexual organ, and I admit I’m very excited by the idea of that; the secret knowledge that the hole between my cheeks has two uses!

I guess my only problem is that I’m not really able to talk about it and that’s why I’m submitting to this blog. If anybody wants to write to me, I’d love to correspond – my name is secretlisa and I’m at

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