Month: August 2014


My girlfriend can only orgasm through anal sex

This guy totally fails to appreciate the wonderful situation he’s in.

All she wants is anal sex. She says she can only have an orgasm if it’s through anal sex. I’ve tried oral and hours of [clitoris] stimulation and nothing works. I’ve never had a problem getting women off but this is getting a little to cumbersome. I have a larger then average penis and it takes a long time to start the process.

Once in a while is fun but not every time we have sex.

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Is it normal that i love anal sex

Im a woman and i LOVE anal,but i dont like vaginal because everytime i try i barley feel anything
is this normal?

A few responses try to convince her that she just hasn’t been with a man who can make her feel good vaginally, but most are supportive and most from women agree that anal is better:

Im the same in that i love anal sex but i dont enjoy vaginal because its still painfull for me as im inexperienced but my boyfriend’s patient and hopefully ill start to feel pleasure instead of pain :/

Don’t feel alone.I have a very difficult time reaching an orgasm vaginally and if I do it’s very weak.My husband sends me to the moon when we have anal intercourse.

Aww, I’m exactly the same! 🙂

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Why Women Love Anal Sex

Anal sex used to be for the sexually daring, but it isn’t anymore. It has become very common in bedrooms around the world since most women love it. The women enjoy it because it feels so amazing. It gives them a totally different as well as intriguing sensation than regular sex. To make the anal sex even more pleasurable, you should play with her clitoris while you are in the act. Buying her a sex toy may help you enhance the experience even further. If the sex is so good, it is possible for the woman to have an orgasm.

Mostly, the women who offer to have anal sex are those that are most comfortable with themselves, their bodies or with asking for what they need from their partners. Most women have tried at some point and it resulted into either pain or pleasure. Those who had pleasure will usually prefer having it as opposed to regular sex.

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Quote of the Day: How to Give a Woman an Anal Orgasm

Anal sex can be extremely pleasurable, not only for men, but also for women. Generally, for women, the pleasure received from anal intercourse is due to the shared nerve endings located between the rectal wall and the vagina, and/or from indirect stimulation of the G-spot and Deep Spot. The anus also contains many nerves that can react in a pleasurable manner when excited. An anal orgasm is an orgasm produced by anal stimulation. All women are able to achieve it, but only a lucky few have actually experienced one. Those who have often describe an anal orgasm as stronger than other types.

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America Runs on Anal

Pornhub Insights, the smut giant’s data department, recently conducted a study about Americans’ anal porn consumption. For several weeks, the team examined Pornhub users’ searches. The research unearthed important facts, like which state’s users likes asses the most and how much American Pornhub viewers like ass in comparison with other countries (only Russians likes butts more than we do).

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Five Reasons Not to Try Anal Sex

  1. You don’t like trying new things.If you’re not adventurous and interested in trying something new sexually, anal sex is not for you. It requires slow experimentation with gentle caresses, exploring the—initially subtle—pleasures and sensations that can only be found inside your ass. Over time you must gradually increase the size of objects you use to masturbate anally until you reach your desired size—at or around the average size of a penis, usually. Great enjoyment and a sense of accomplishment can accompany this process as you reach new goals, but if you don’t want to try anything new…
  2. You are easily swayed by negative opinions of others.If your friends or family members all tell you to stay away from anal sex because it’s gross, painful, gay, or just wrong—and if you decide to just trust their word for it, even if they don’t know what they’re talking about, rather than trying it for yourself the right way and seeing what you think, you may not have the right sort of mindset to enjoy anal sex. You need to approach it with an open mind, having read multiple guides on how to start having anal in an enjoyable manner, and be willing to try again if you fail. You often have to want anal to enjoy it when you’re first starting.
  3. You care what other people think about your private sex life.If you’re afraid that your friends are going to judge you or call you a slut if they find out you have anal sex, and that fact keeps you from trying it, perhaps you shouldn’t try. After all, you wouldn’t want someone to think negatively of you for a stupid reason, would you?
  4. You don’t want to become dependent on anal stimulation for pleasure.If you come to love anal stimulation, the more you’re going to want it. Once you feel an orgasm accompanied by anal stimulation, a regular orgasm will feel weak in comparison, and you’ll want anal stimulation every time you have sex or masturbate, and anal sex as often as you can.
  5. You don’t enjoy experiencing immense pleasure and having incredible orgasms.The fact is, for most women, anal orgasms, or clitoral orgasms while being anally penetrated, are much more intense and easy to achieve than any other. Women who were unable to ever orgasm before have been able to cum just from being fucked in their ass without even touching their pussy or clit. Women who can orgasm have much more intense and satisfying orgasms from anal. The pleasure is far higher from anal, and if pleasure is something you want to avoid you should probably stay away from buttsex.

Why Women Should Have Anal Sex

In this article a woman lists her reasons why she believes women should have anal sex, including:

  • Birth Controlled Sex

  • The Kinky Wild Side

  • It Builds Trust

  • Feeling Powerful

  • Intense Orgasms

She concludes with these words:

I LOVE anal sex. Of course it took some time, practice, and 2 really hot men to get me to love it, but now I can’t imagine a sexy romp in bed without a little anal action

Message: Men Who Don’t Want To Do Anal

Anonymous: I’ve met quite a few men who didn’t want to have anal sex with me. I’ve been wondering, how come? Do you think there are men who think that anal sex is a gay thing, even though it’s with a woman?

Some men just aren’t very sexually open-minded, and while I think the majority would like to at least try anal, there is still a significant number who have qualms about it.

Some do think trying it makes them gay, others think it’s gross, and a common objection is the same some women use: why try anal when there’s something “better” (according to the person who hasn’t actually compared the two) right beside it.