superprettypinkus: It is incredible how you’ve accumulated such a wealth of resources in such a time. For the most part I think what you do is helpful for people marginalized by current “orthodoxy”. I’ve seen first hand the damage that denying natural desires does to guys. It is much easier for women (though not without issues) as mostly they call the shots in sex, and I’ll freely admit that.
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It’s a fairly common scenario for one partner in a relationship to be taken aback by a sudden sexual change in the other partner, and when that change is a sudden desire for anal sex or to go anal only, it can take some getting used to the idea.
My wife is 39 and weve been together for nearly 20yrs. She’s always said she’d never let me do her arse. Now suddenly she says she wants it! Anyone got any ideas as to why her sudden change of mind?
And later he explains further:
We watch porn together, she likes it but ive had to find stuff without anal because shes always said its something she would never do and it doesnt turn her on! Now it seems shes suddenly changed her mind!
To my mind this is a woman who is protesting too much. By bringing up the subject she’s trying to get him to say how he feels about anal sex. Perhaps it has been a fantasy of hers for many years, yet each has lacked the courage to speak up. As ever, communication is the key to happy and successful anal sex.
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analassblog: Nice blog, I’m sending to the link to my wife now. We started having anal sex and she loved it, had some of the best orgasms she’d ever had. But she stopped because she was worried that it might cause her to have issues holding “stuff” in. hoping she’ll get some good info here.
With proper preparation and slow, gradual stretching to warm up, anal sex does not cause incontinence. A loosening of the anal sphincter is caused by damage from forcing it to expand too much too quickly. Proper anal sex and masturbation actually strengthens it and helps the recipient to gain more conscious control over it.
If anal sex ever hurts, you should stop immediately and build up more slowly to avoid the pain. If it doesn’t hurt and feels great, there’s not much to worry about and you should both enjoy it regularly.
Those are the questions asked by a man at bodybuilding.com.
He seems to be genuinely surprised when he says:
Seriously, the time it takes to make her cum is less and her O cumming reaction is like 500x more intense when i put it in her ass and rub her clit than when i fuk her puss. Turns into the dirtiest cock lovin slut when her butthole is filled up and being pounded lol.
And follows on:
But i’m seriously somewhat curious as to why it would make her cum easier… the skin between vadge and anus is thin as hell, but at the same time, it seems like vadge would feel better.
So i think she’s likely getting off on the mental aspect of it, but she says it feels like she’s filled up way more / it’s deeper or something.
His disbelief that she could prefer anal, refusal to accept her word and also his own claim that he thinks vaginal feels better reveals a man very much in denial. Often many men aren’t comfortable with their own sexuality and associate vaginal sex with masculinity and self worth.
His girlfriend is just like millions of other women, who happen to find anal is more pleasurable and fulfilling for them. Unlike him it sounds as though she is comfortable with this fact, open, and honest.
anal sex is
the only way to go
if you ask to fuck my cunt
the answer will be “no”
**
call it what you want
“butt”, “arse”, or “ass”
if you’re not into anal
i’m afraid i’ll have to pass
**
some say it’s just an exit
but for me it’s an entrance too
if you desire to be with me
anal sex you’ll have to do
**
call it what you want
“rosebud”, ‘browneye”, or “booty”
giving me hot anal sex
will be your one and only duty
Every article on anal sex which allows comments should start out repeating what this insightful individual said:
After reading the various replies on this thread you still aren’t understanding that it’s not just the men who like it and want it?
You sound like a high schooler between the Ewwww comments and thinking that him liking anal would turn him bisexual or gay. Did you know you can also get pregnant by sitting on a toilet seat?
If its not for you – fine. In a relationship do what ever makes the 2 of you happy. Anal isn’t for everyone but some people, including women, really enjoy it and even….gasp…ask for it!