Anonymous: What do you imagine the next 10 years of anal only will look like?

I’ve been scrolling back through older posts from years ago on this blog and it’s exciting to see how much the community and the wider world has developed in that time! Double anal has gone from an extreme niche kink, to being in my opinion, the new standard vanilla sex replacing vaginal and single anal. Not to mention the wider acceptance of anal only as a birth control method, the popularity of ass to mouth and rimming as the primary form of oral and the rise in anal only clit denial and anal only edging ideas. I’m curious what will be next!

What will be next? Triple anal only?

There has been quite a lot of development in the anal only community and the greater global embrace of anal, double anal, and more in the last decade. The anal only lifestyle has become ever-increasingly popular. Double anal is a staple in porn, and an ever-growing number of real people are exploring it, regularly enjoying it or going double anal only.

However, it’s still definitely a minority of people that are anal only, and a fraction of them double anal only. What has grown is the increasing normalization of anal—most women aren’t anal only yet, but most do anal and consider it a regular part of sex.

While an increase in popularity of triple anal and beyond on the more extreme end of things is likely as well, where I see the next decade is in the further denormalization of vaginal sex and more widespread adoption of the anal only and double anal only lifestyles. Newer generations will go straight to anal only and avoid vaginal altogether, for greater pleasure and more guaranteed birth control.

Butt plugs are already popular, but more and more they will become a standard daily activity for women, and larger plugs will gain popularity over just small jeweled plugs.

The idea of staying tight for anal enjoyment will begin to fade away in favor of bigger stretches and more of a large toy, fisting, multi-anal penetration (DAP, TAP, etc.) focus will take its place with greater pleasure and opportunity for everyone. Gape is good!

Clit stimulation will further fall to the wayside as pure anal orgasm becomes increasingly common and the downsides of clit orgasm are further understood, and women embrace a deeper focus on pure anal only.

In the coming decades, anal only, double anal only, and beyond will move from rare personal preferences to increasingly being cultural norms. The next decade is going to be all about spreading the lifestyle and making it the new normal.

Tiny Man Warrior: I convinced a friend of mine to convert to the anal only lifestyle. She is disabled from an auto immune disease, having her mobility, speech, sense of independence, and love life altered drastically. She became depressed and started to feel as though no one was interested in her. Vaginal sex lost its appeal because of her depression and sadness worsening.

When we got back in touch after ten years, I started to visit her regularly. Her mother and nurses were glad that she had someone to show her she was adored. One visit, while watching Rosewood, she confided in me that she missed sex but could not be aroused. After a joke-like suggestion that “maybe someone needs to get in that butt”, she agreed but asked me to satisfy her.

That week I ordered various anal pleasure kits, including a connectable enema hose. A handful of coconut oil and ten strokes later, her body convulsed in orgasmic pleasure. When I noticed her crying out of pure bliss I asked if she was ok, if I was hurting her? She said no, don’t stop. Five minutes later, she released a geyser of ejaculate. From that day forward, we’ve been indulging in the erotic and electric privilege that is anal only.

Glad to hear that you could help her to experience sexual pleasure and intimacy again through the anal only lifestyle. I hope you are able to continue enjoying that indefinitely. Whatever the reason behind it, staying anal only is always better.

Anonymous: My boyfriend and I have been together since high school and up until now I’ve only ever given him blowjobs but recently he told me he really wants to try doing anal. I’ve read a lot about anal since then and I’m a little nervous to take it up my butt but I also really want to impress him by doing a good job, so I was wondering if you could give me any advice on how I can give him the best experience possible and make sure it’s as pleasurable as possible for him? Thanks!

Thanks for the message, I’m glad to hear that you’re considering starting to do anal and go anal only with your boyfriend. I’d encourage starting by reading through the Guide to Anal Sex and the Anal Only Lifestyle and having him read it too. This will establish a good foundation for preparing for anal sex and calming any fears you might have.

You’ll likely need to train for a bit before you do it the first time, and using butt plugs and other toys will help a lot, as well as introducing practices like fingering and rimming. Once you do start having anal sex you may not be able to do it more than once or twice a week at first, but with practice you absolutely can start doing it daily or more frequently if you want.

I highly encourage adopting it wholeheartedly and pursuing it from the perspective of mutual pleasure, and focusing purely on anal without vaginal, staying anal only and a vaginal virgin, because the pleasure is so much superior and vaginal virginity is something special and beautiful.

Can you believe it’s been almost 10 years since No Pussy November first started? A decade of people discovering the joys of the anal only lifestyle and giving up vaginal sex for at least a month to see what it’s all about for themselves. Thank you to everyone for participating all these years, and welcome to those interested in trying for the first time!

If you’re new to the anal only lifestyle and you want to give it a try, this is a great time and way to do it! Talk with your partner now in advance of November and make sure you’re both on board with the idea, or if you’re single and want to try it with toys, get yourself to the point where you’re comfortable with anal masturbation on a regular basis—at least 3 to 5 times a week, if not every day.

If you’re already anal only, there are plenty of other things that you can try as a No Pussy November challenge this year!

• If you still use clitoral stimulation, you can challenge yourself to stop and focus purely on anal pleasure and anal orgasms. The more you go without your clit and rely on anal only to orgasm, the easier anal orgasms get!
• If you aren’t wearing a butt plug regularly, you can challenge yourself to wear one at some increased interval, or to spend the entire month plugged as often as possible. If you want to reach the latter goal but aren’t quite there yet, you could work yourself up to that point over the course of the month.
• You can challenge yourself to make ass to mouth a regular part of your sex life, normalizing it by doing it every time you have sex this November.
• You can start to introduce double anal to your sex life, either through play with two dildos, a partner and a dildo, or two partners.

Along the lines of that latter idea, for those who are particularly interested or experienced with double anal, we’re continuing our official advanced challenge this year as well: Double Anal Only November, where those who want to or are able to masturbate regularly with two dildos in their ass or have double anal sex regularly spend the entire month only having double anal sex every time they have sex. Naturally, this may be somewhat limited to people who have multiple partners who want to have double anal with them, but you can also participate by always using a toy along with their partner to achieve double anal, or by masturbating with a minimum of two toys in your ass at a time.

What are your plans? Let us know!

My boyfriend (21M) and I (21F) have been in a cuckold relationship for almost two years. I love vagina sex but my vagina couldn’t take big stuff. My boyfriend isn’t really into anal sex which I don’t mind as he has an average thin cock of about 4 inch. His best friend (22M) introduced me to anal sex (with clit stimulation) which made me love it more than vagina sex. I can take his whole 7 inch cock without any pain at all unlike my vagina. The only reason why I still have vagina sex with him is simply because I have a thing with creampie (anal creampie doesn’t feel the same way). I just found out about this subreddit and it makes me wonder if I should go this route with my bull. I could stop taking birth control if we only have anal sex(Am I right?). My boyfriend is submissive to me so I could tell him to start wearing condom if he wants to have vagina sex with me.

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Due to a number of things going on at once (all good) I currently have very little free time and am unable to maintain posting on this blog consistently and so am taking a temporary hiatus until things settle down. I will continue to post and answer any questions or comments anyone sends in but will not write new articles or track down additional content to post. Currently the plan would be to resume regular posting after a few months.

Thank you for your continued support and readership.

I’m 75 and my dear wife is 69 and we have been analonly for practically our entire 30 year relationship. We didn’t want kids when we got together at the tail end of our reproductive years so that made it easier but the dominant reason for going AO is that she would get urinary tract infections from vag sex. I was her first anal partner and she took to it like a duck to water. We have anal once a week with the occasional double treat in mid week.

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Hi guys, I just recently discovered this website and oh! boy, was I happy when I stumbled upon this community of anal sex enthusiasts like myself because to be honest I struggled with understanding my sexuality for years, I don’t know how or why but I just really enjoy heterosexual anal, contrary to people’s perceptions that anal is dirty and disgusting, its not the same for me at all, nothing disgusts or repulses me about the anus, I would happily lick and do stuff to my girl’s anus, If anything it’s the vagina that repluses me, I don’t ever get off to vagina porn and it took me a lot of brain training to start getting hard when fucking the vagina, I once dated a woman that was always pissed off because I couldn’t keep a hard on for long when fucking her pussy.

For a while I thought how did I get here and the thought really did a number on me as it always affected many of my relationships growing up, the vagina doesn’t turn me on at all, oral and PIV included, it was always a struggle to convince a woman to let me fuck her in the ass because I would be scared of being judged or worse, seen as a freak of nature. My AO journey started in 2012, I met a virgin girl and we were really in love at the time, she was very religious and was keen on staying a virgin till she got married so I managed to convince her into trying anal and my oh my it was an amazing 6 AO years with her, it didn’t start off great but it eventually did, we learned and anally evolved together, I fucked her ass so much back then because she lived nearby and we always saw each other a lot, I would lube her up, finger and shove toys into her ass, I loved seeing her gape open everytime, she was such a submissive girlfriend and I never took that for granted.

Fast forward, life happened and she started feeling like she was ready to lose her vagina virginity, according to her she said she never really liked anal sex and she was only doing it to preserve her virginity and because she didn’t want to get pregnant, I told her that couldn’t work for me because I want AO and well that amazing chapter ended in my life. Im a 26 year old man now and I have been into anal sex for exactly 8 years now. My journey has been somewhat amazing and rough along the edges. I’ve had a fair amount of anal with some women since then and it never really lasted long. I finally met another woman this year who’s ready to go into a committed AO relationship with me but I’m just too scared I don’t push her away with my sexual habits. I fear me doing things like ASS Gaping her might push her away but I can’t stop myself. I love myself a wide open ass man

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My first proper boyfriend got me into anal a very long time ago. He was 5 years older than me and I would have done anything for him. During my period I would keep him happy with blowjobs. I’ve always loved sucking cock so it wasn’t a bother for me. After a few months he asked to fuck me in the ass when I was on. I wasn’t sure at first but he said his ex used to really like it. I’ve no idea if that was true, but I didn’t want to let him down. It really hurt to begin with to the point I wasn’t sure I’d made the right decision. I asked an older girlfriend about it and she gave me some tips. I learned to relax, and once I stopped worrying that it might be painful I began to enjoy it. By the time we split up I was having anal-only orgasms and asking for it at any time of the month.

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