Join us in making next month No Pussy November. If you aren’t already in an anal only relationship, this is your chance to give it a try for one month. We’re announcing this two weeks in advance to give everyone a chance to make their plans and talk to their partners about the idea. On the first of November, everyone participating should cease having vaginal sex and focus on anal instead. At the end of the month, it’s up to you whether you return to vaginal or stay anal only.

Be sure to submit your stories here over the next month and a half, and beyond, and ask any questions you may have.

As suggested by an anonymous follower, we are launching the Anal Only Lifestyle Forum to allow for more in-depth conversations. A present, nothing will change about the way our tumblr blog is run, and we will continue posting and approving submissions and questions as usual, but if you want to discuss things further and take part in more back-and-forth, head over to the forum, sign up, and start posting!

Anonymous: Have you considered creating an Anal Only Lifestyle forum somewhere so those living the lifestyle or considering it can have more in-depth discussions? Tumblr is really limited and doesn’t allow for back and forth discussion threads. It also requires each post to be really short. Keep up the good work, though! You’re doing a great job of highlighting how much better sex between a man and woman can be and what most people are missing.

Thanks for the suggestion. An Anal Only Lifestyle forum announcement will be coming later today.

Anonymous: I would like to know more about the blog and the person behind it. Do you have many followers? Do you have only anal sex? Do you get much negative feedback or are most people positive about the lifestyle? Lastly, is the blog just to share information or do you think other people will become interested when they hear about the anal only concept? Thanks.

The Anal Only Lifestyle blog has multiple people behind it who are regular contributors. Most of us either do live the anal only lifestyle, have for an extended period in the past, or are seeking to do so in the future.

We have nearly 700 followers at this time, while our pornographic counterpart, Anal Only, has over 11,000.

Feedback has been almost entirely positive, with only a very tiny bit semi-negative. Nearly everyone appears to at least be tolerant of people’s preferences even if they don’t personally understand them, and most are actually actively interested in the idea of giving up vaginal sex for exclusive anal, even if they’re unwilling to do it at present.

The blog is both to share information with others who have the same interests and let them know they’re not alone and that there are in fact many others out there of every gender with the same desires, and to introduce the idea to others and get them to realize the possibility and make them want it as well. Personally, that’s how I was introduced to the idea. I’d always liked anal but never considered the idea of anal exclusivity until I began reading about happy couples who had given up vaginal sex and were only having anal sex and loving it. I immediately knew that I wanted the same.

So, on that note, if anyone following has a story about an anal only relationship that they want to share, please submit it. You can do so anonymously if you want, but please get it out there so you can help others who want the same thing.

superprettypinkus: It is incredible how you’ve accumulated such a wealth of resources in such a time. For the most part I think what you do is helpful for people marginalized by current “orthodoxy”. I’ve seen first hand the damage that denying natural desires does to guys. It is much easier for women (though not without issues) as mostly they call the shots in sex, and I’ll freely admit that.

Anonymous: Thanks for starting this blog! I never thought there were so many others out there just like me. I also have no interest in vaginal sex. It’s confusing because I like women but all my life all my thoughts about sex have been about anal. It’s kinda comforting to know I’m not nearly as alone as I thought I was.

analk1ng: I have to disagree with miss-van-der-rohe. Why is it limiting to do what you enjoy the most? Why is it unhealthy or an issue to have a preference for women’s anuses over vaginas. It’s just a difference that’s all. Saying it’s an issue is almost as bad as saying gay men are unhealthy because they aren’t attracted to women at all. Plus lots of women also like only anal sex – are they also unhealthy in her eyes?

It all comes down to personal choice and preference. We who identify as anal only prefer anal. We don’t encourage forcing that preference onto anyone, but we do encourage other people try going anal only for themselves and then with that experience of having tried it, see for themselves what they think about it.

miss-van-der-rohe: To each their own, but why limit yourself to one way to have sex? It’s the flipside of having vaginal sex only without even trying anal ever. And from what I see you’re actually turned OFF by female genitals, which is an issue in itself; it’s like those women who claim to be attracted to men but are disgusted by their penises and never want to look at one – you think that’s healthy?

Great question. Ultimately, I think people should do what appeals to them. People who enjoy vaginal sex should have vaginal sex. People who enjoy both anal and vaginal sex should have both. And people who prefer anal should have anal. I’m not turned off by female genitals so much as attracted to the female anus even more. In fact, I find a lot of vulvas quite beautiful, but the overall experience with anal sex is more enjoyable all around.

There are many different reasons people choose to go anal only. In some cases it is a bit of a fetishization of limitation, e.g. vaginal chastity while replacing it completely with the anus as a sex organ. That turns some people on—men and women both. But for others—again, men and women both—vaginal sex just doesn’t do anything for them. It doesn’t feel as good or doesn’t make them cum easily or at all, while anal does. If you can’t cum from vaginal sex but you can from anal, or if anal routinely leads to much better orgasms, it’s no surprise that you would prefer anal.

dr-yueh: I’ve spent some time today reading all the submission/post/stories on this blog today. You have to read them all to get the bigger picture, as each individual doesn’t show what’s really going on. Just on the number we’ve seen so far, I’d say there is now huge interest in anal and anal-only. What’s more the stories validate the indications that just as many women as men want anal sex. It must help that now people have examples to follow of happy working anal-only relationships.

dr-yueh: Sorry for another comment in your inbox – this is a bit of an obsession of mine 🙂 I can’t help but notice how “anal only” which has been under the radar for years (obviously people did it just kept quiet) but now appears to be getting more attention all of a sudden. I see more opening up about it on the internet in the last few years than ever. And more are curious to learn more or try. Obviously places like this blog do help.

There have been discussions about it for some time, but they’ve been scattered across the internet rather than on sites specific to the subject. The few other sites that exist for this purpose tend to be more about certain people’s personal experiences—which is great, but I think a site approaching it more neutrally attracts more discussion and sharing of many different people’s experiences instead.