Message: Partner Can’t Keep Up, Part II
Emma: Thank you very much for the previous answer, but it’s not about using toys for me. What I really miss are those wild group sex moments, being the center of attention with so many people wanting me at the same time. The feeling of several bodies around me, everyone just hungry for it, is something I can’t get anywhere else.
And it’s not just about the excitement. I seriously crave the full, stretched-out feeling from double anal, feeling two dicks moving inside of me in different ways, filling me up. That intense sensation, the movement and pressure, just makes me feel alive and wanted in a way nothing else does.
I really love my partner and our emotional connection, but these group experiences and that physical intensity aren’t things he can give me, even with a bigger toy. I’m scared if we ever went to a party together, he wouldn’t be able to keep up or would feel bad about not being able to satisfy these needs.
I just hate feeling caught between needing this wild part of myself and not wanting to hurt the person I love. What should I do?
That’s fair enough, and it seems like if that’s something you really need you need to bring it up with him and share your past and your desires around it. It’s always a risk, but it can lead to great things if he’s open to trying and exploring with you.
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