Message: It’s Worth Committing to Double Anal
Tess: I’m in my mid-30s and very open about my sexuality. Double anal has become my favorite form of sex, something I was first drawn to in my early 20s after seeing it in porn. What started as fantasy slowly became something I wanted to experience for real.
The path there wasn’t simple. At first, I experimented occasionally with toys along with a partner but it always felt incomplete. I wanted the real thing with two guys, not just the idea of it. I lost relationships along the way because most men weren’t comfortable sharing me, and those breakups hurt more than I expected. It made me wonder whether my desires were simply “too much.”
Eventually, I decided to stop waiting for permission. I went to a group-sex event on my own, where I finally experienced true double anal for the first time. That night was transformative. I knew then that this was something I needed in my life, and wasn’t something to feel ashamed of.
Today, I’m with a partner who has chosen to explore this with me. It took time, honesty, and a lot of reassurance. I had to be clear that sharing this experience didn’t diminish my feelings for him, in fact, it deepened them. What we share now feels intentional and deeply connected.
I’m happier than I’ve ever been sexually, and more confident in who I am. My advice to anyone reading this is simple: don’t let shame convince you to settle. If something feels true to you, keep honoring it. The right people won’t be scared by your desires—they’ll rise to meet them.
Glad to hear you’ve embraced your natural double anal needs, and I hope that this leads to you becoming not just anal only, but double anal only!
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