Message: Ready For Anal In 14 Days?
Anonymous: First of all I love your blog. So I wanna try anal with My Boyfriend and I am going to See him in 2 Weeks, is there any possibility that I am ready for anal in 14 days? What is the Best way To prepare for that and do we have To use “special” lube?
Thanks!
It’s certainly possible, everyone is different and some people are naturals at anal who need almost no preparation while others need to take more time. I’d suggest starting to explore anal play on your own right away and try to masturbate anally daily or every other day, working up in size from just a finger to a dildo around the size of your boyfriend over the course of that time. If it starts to hurt at any point, try something smaller for a bit first. I’d suggest also reading through the #anal-advice tagged posts here, which can go into more detail.
Just use a good anal lube. There are many kinds. Water-based, silicone-based, oil-based, etc. Each come with different positives and negatives. Try a few and see what works for you. Don’t get one with lidocaine or any sort of numbing/painkilling effects. You don’t want to mask any potential anal pain, you want to feel it so you know to stop and adjust what you’re doing instead so that it doesn’t hurt.
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