Message: Giving Him My Clit

Anonymous: My boyfriend and I went “Anal Only” nearly 2 years ago thanks to sites like this one really fueling our fantasies. Recently, he told me he wants us to do complete vaginal abandonment. I’ve never been able to cum without touching my clit, so it was difficult for me to consider, but the more I read, the more I wanted to do this for him. So, for Christmas this year, I’m “giving him my clit”. And letting him know that even if it means I’ll never have another orgasm, I’ll never touch my clit again.

If that is truly what you want to do, and not just something to make him happy at your expense, then great—go for it. But if you still have hesitations about it, I’d strongly suggest going for a trial run instead, or working towards that goal gradually, through training to try and develop the ability to orgasm from anal penetration.

Complete vaginal and clitoral abandonment can be a hot fantasy, and can work for some people, but isn’t something everyone should necessarily do if it doesn’t work for them. Work towards it gradually and/or give it a trial period. And even then, leave yourself the option of not doing it if it doesn’t work for you. Ultimately, the clitoris is separate from the vagina anyway, so you’ve already engaged in vaginal abandonment. You playing with your clit doesn’t really affect him in any way—he already gets to have anal sex with you every time. If he wants you to be able to orgasm from anal alone, he should be willing to work with you to try and see if you can reach that goal together, rather than wanting you to just cease all clit stimulation.

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