Anonymous: I think that the look of a girls asshole, and how it feels to fuck, beats a pussy every time. I love the sound of an anal only lifestyle! Please can we have more regular posts on your tumblr as this place is one of a kind and i don’t see anything else like this anywhere else!!

I’d love to be posting multiple times per day, but the amount of existing content out there to quote on the subject is fairly limited and has largely been exhausted by this site already—leaving user submissions to make up most of our content now. Unfortunately, the rate of user submissions can very quite a lot and sometimes we don’t get very much for a long time.

Anonymous: Hi! I’m a 21 year old girl who has been anal only for 16 months now because my bf’s cock is too big for my vag to make sex enjoyable. I love it, even though I don’t always manage to cum. It feels so intimate. My bf said that he’d like me to stop touching my pussy during sex, since it can be very distracting for both of us. So to step up the game, we’re trying to actually go all the way in April. This also means no masturbation for a month, just anal fucking. I’m a bit anxious but mostly excited!

Good luck! That sounds amazing! It’ll probably be really tempting to touch yourself early on and hard to resist at times, but it’s totally worth holding out and learning to have purely anal orgasms. If you do end up giving in to temptation, though, don’t worry about it too much and just try again. Sometimes it can take multiple attempts to build up to longer term anal only.

This article at gawker.com discusses a study from the Journal in Sexual Medicine, and says:

A breakdown of the data shows that 20 percent of 18- and 19 year-old women have tried anal sex at least once, and 40 percent of women ages 20 to 24 have been successfully persuaded by their boyfriend to give it a whirl at some point in their lives. Not only are ladies trying it, but they’re sticking with it, it seems. In 1992, only 10 percent of ladies had gotten it in the backdoor in the past year. Now 20 percent of women report they’ve done it in the past 12 months.

Read this article at cosmopolitan about how a wife and mother enjoys anal sex and has orgasms caused by anal stimulation alone. As she says:

I’ve thought many times that my G-spot is in my ass. I can definitely orgasm with only anal penetration, but sometimes I get the double orgasm when we add in clit stimulation. First one then the other. DAMN, that’s something.

Yet further testimony and evidence that not only is female anal orgasm possible, but that it is far more pleasurable. This puts vaginal sex at a definite disadvantage.

Anonymous: Reading all the stuff here has given me the confidence to suggest anal only to my wife. Though we had always enjoyed lots of anal, without thinking we had just gone along thinking vaginal sex was a normal part of marriage even if we did find it less exciting to do. We’re still young, no thoughts about kids just now so vaginal isn’t necessary. It makes so much sense to do this, and people who haven’t tried can’t possibly know how much better anal is.

Well said! I hope everything goes well for you.