Message: How To Get Your Partner On Board?

Anonymous: This is something I would love to do. The trouble is that 2 people need to sign-up for this. How would you go about persuading a girlfriend that this could be a positive step, rather than something negative?

If she already enjoys anal, try starting out slow—even slower than suggested a number of posts back. Suggest a day where you only have anal sex. Do that a few times before moving on to trying it for a weekend, etc.

If she doesn’t like anal, or is simply inexperienced in it, try lightly massaging the outside of her anus with your thumb during doggy style vaginal sex. The sensation can be quite pleasurable and may awaken a greater desire for anal play and sex.

Always respect her wishes and ask before doing any sort of anal penetration, of course.

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