Category: Anal Fisting


How Can I Make Him Fuck My Ass?

Anonymous: I really love anal but my current daddy hates it. How can I make him fuck my ass? I’m dying to be fisted again. :'(

ditzystella: Truthfully? You’re with the wrong Daddy in my opinion if he “hates” it and you’re longing for it. So, maybe if you really want to be with him, get permission to use some toys on yourself? Are you cute? I can help! 🙂 haha

Actually I need help properly answering this, i’m not happy with my answer. @analsexonly can you please help here? Thank you!

Some people just don’t like certain sex acts and there isn’t much that’s going to change that for them, as much as we might wish there was. For example, I hate vaginal sex personally and have little to no interest in ever, ever doing it again. Nothing’s going to change my mind about that. It’s just who I am—I love anal and oral sex instead of vaginal.

However, not everyone is necessarily as set in stone about it as I am. You can talk with him and ask him what it is about anal that he doesn’t like. Is it actually the sex itself, or is it something else? Maybe he dislikes the need for prep with anal, or finds it limiting because you have to warm up to it first and he can’t go as hard or fast, or something of that nature. Some don’t like it because they feel the romance and spontaneity of sex may be reduced with something that requires more “work” before starting. These things can be mitigated if that’s his concern. Other people just don’t like the idea of it, find it gross, or don’t like how it feels. Some of those things have potential solutions, others may not. Everybody’s different, and if he’s set in his opposition to anal sex, you’ll have to decide how important it is for you to get it.

Message: Should I Let My Boyfriend Fist My Ass?

Anonymous: My boy friend wants to fist my ass and while I know I could do it cause I can take 2 big toys and his cock together should I let him fisting is a big thing I get super turned on by it but i don’t know if I would like it

You’ll have to decide whether you want to or not, and what your hesitation is. There’s nothing wrong with anal fisting if you can safely do it, and you won’t know if you like it until you try. Ultimately, it’s your ass and your choice, so don’t let anyone pressure you into something you don’t want to do, but it sounds like it is something you might like trying—and if you decide you don’t like it, you can stop and not do it again.

Message: Always Wanted To Fist My Ass

Anonymous: Ok this question might be a little too much, but I’ve always wanted to fist myself but I can’t quite get there!! Any tips?

Butt plugs. Start with a size slightly larger than what you can fit already and slowly work up to getting it in. Wear it regularly until it’s very easy, then get another that’s larger. Keep going up in size, perhaps no more than ¼” diameter larger each time, until you’ve gotten to around the diameter of your fist. When you do attempt your fist, shape it into the “duck bill” position where all your fingers are held together and taper up towards your knuckles so there’s a gradual size increase rather than a clenched fist, which is larger.