Message: Exploring Double Anal in the New Year
Gina: I’m 37, married, and a mom of three, but I’ve never felt more in tune with my body or my marriage than I do now. Years ago, we decided our family was complete, and that opened a different side of our relationship. Without the pressure or planning for what comes next, I decided to go anal only and we could finally explore what really excites us.
Since we rarely get nights out, we make our own fun at home. Once the kids are asleep, I like to pour some wine, put on something that makes me feel daring, and invite my husband into our little world. We’ve built a space where we can play, watch porn, and experiment without judgment. Over a year ago we even introduced DAP with a toy when I got inspired by a couple of porn movies.
My husband has asked about taking one of our shared fantasies further and try double anal for real, and until recently, I always said no. I wasn’t sure, or maybe I wasn’t ready. But something in me has changed. I feel bolder now, more curious, and aware of how much the idea excites both of us. Instead of brushing it aside, I want to embrace it. I know how much this means to him, and it’s starting to mean something to me too. The idea of me being in such a situation thrills me.
So, for New Year’s Eve, I’ve decided to surprise him. No warnings, no hints, just a moment he’s dreamed about and I’m finally ready to give. It’s not just the fantasy of it, I want to show him that even after years of love, parenthood, and routine, I’m still here, wanting, evolving, and unafraid to turn our shared imagination into something real.
I know that he has internally given up to convince me. That is the reason I want to take on this bold move. Any idea how to surprise him without telling him upfront right before?
Lovely to hear about your anal only evolution, and that’s wonderful you’ve been exploring DAP together with a toy and are now considering doing double anal for real. Since introducing another partner into the routine can be a challenge, I think it’s best to train and prepare for it in secret, making sure you’re physically ready, ramp up the frequency of how often you do double anal with your husband and a toy in the lead up, but then tell him if you are ready to introduce a partner and schedule it so that aspect is less of a surprise for him and he can be prepared too.
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