Message: Can’t Have Vaginal Sex Anymore
Anonymous: I kind of accidentally found your blog. I was looking for sex tips since after some medical issues I won’t go into I can’t have vaginal sex anymore, and I wanted to say that while your blog wasn’t exactly what I was looking for it has helped me feel sexual again and build my confidence back up.
Thanks for reaching out. I’m glad it helped you! I can understand how suddenly being unable to have vaginal sex again—especially in a manner against your will—when it’s been a major part of your sexuality and sexual identity up to that point can be quite a shocking change and hard to process.
While there are a lot of reasons people go anal only, medical conditions preventing vaginal sex or making it difficult and uncomfortable are definitely a reason for a number of people out there. It can be a wonderful way to resume one’s sexuality and intimacy with a partner. There are some members on the Anal Only Lifestyle forum that have had similar scenarios leading them to anal only.
If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask!
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alwaysanalblog: Anal definitely is a confidence builder for women. Whether it’s just a part of exploration and personal development, or as above when it helps heal a void, women can only benefit from it.