Message: I See My Clit as an Unwanted Temptation

Anonymous: Is wanting a clitoridectomy common after going anal only for women? Now at this point, I just see my clit as unwanted temptation and I’m verging on grossed out by it. Obviously removing it surgically is not a viable option. Do you think piecing it would be a viable alternative to losing sensation there?

It seems to be at least a somewhat common fantasy, though acting on it isn’t common. Some might experiment with various forms of temporary clit numbing—orajel and similar things have been used by people interested in reducing clitoral sensation.

I’ve heard of people piercing their clit in an attempt to reduce sensation, but not heard of it being successful outside of a very few people who inadvertently ended up with an unwanted loss of sensation.

Personally, I think the best thing is to just develop a negative association with it and learn to avoid the temptation if you’re no longer interested in using your clit. There’s nothing gross about having a clit, you just don’t need to use it for stimulation anymore if you’ve moved beyond it to pure anal only. Just like your pussy—it’s a part of you and there’s nothing bad about it on its own and it doesn’t need to be “removed”, it’s just not something you use anymore for sex.

That said, I also think that a consenting adult has the right to do whatever they like with their body, and should be able to modify themselves as they see fit, including removing their clit if that’s what they truly want. It’s an irreversible change, so it should only be done after long-term consideration and in a stable state of mind, but it should be legal to do. Unfortunately, global problems with nonconsensual genital mutilation of minors has led to an increased sensitivity on this particular topic that makes it very difficult to achieve for those who do want to do it of their own free will.

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