Message: Anal Hurts After Not Doing It For a While

iputthecountercultureonmybackI’m very open to anal, I have tried it before and it felt great. Idk why but me and my boyfriend strayed away from it for a bit but we tried getting back into and it really hurt, any tips?

If you go without any anal play for an extended period of time, the sphincter tightens up again quite significantly and you may need to spend more time warming up before trying it again. Start out with fingers and toys, get relaxed, use lots of lube, etc. Then when that’s comfortable, try actual anal sex again—and even then go slow the first few times.

If it hurts, you just aren’t warmed up enough in that area or aren’t using enough lube.

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