Message: Is It Too Late to Start AO in My 40s?
Anonymous: I’ve only recently discovered anal can feel better than vaginal, and now I can’t stop thinking about going anal only. But I’m 44 and feel like I missed the boat, especially since my husband and I still mostly do vaginal. Is it too late to make this shift?
Absolutely not! Many women have found in their 30s, 40s, or even later, that they actually prefer anal and made the switch away from vaginal to anal. In some ways this can be easier, especially if you are done having kids, it’s easier to consider the idea of “retiring” your pussy for pure anal pleasure. Add in perimenopause and other things that can impact vaginal sex during this time, and it just makes a lot of sense.
I suggest making the switch right away for masturbation and focusing purely on anal going forward, and then talking with your husband about the idea and see if he’s willing to try an anal only month as an initial trial period. From there, it’s likely you’ll both want to stay AO.
It’s never too late.
I’ve known Anal Only women who have started in their 60s.
Welcome to the club. 😊
I agree. Start with a month of anal only sex, committing to anal sex at least three times a week (more is better). By the end of the month, you and your husband will be better equipped to make the decision if anal only is right for you. I’m sure you will decide in favor of anal only.