Anonymous: I’m going anal only for my boyfriend. I don’t even like anal but I know he likes it and he would love it if we did this, so we’re gonna go for it.

I’m not going to suggest outright that you shouldn’t do this, because I know there are lots of people out there who get more enjoyment and emotional satisfaction from their partner’s enjoyment of sex than they do from the physical act itself and who prioritize this over the physical aspect.

I will, however, suggest that you take the opportunity to learn how to enjoy anal sex for yourself. You’ll have a lot of time to do so if you’re going anal only, so while you’re doing so, see what things feel better than other things and try to focus on what feels good. The more you do it, the better it will feel.

What about anal don’t you like? Does it hurt? Or just not as stimulating for you yet? If you have specific questions about making it better, feel free to ask—I’m happy to help you unlock the pleasure of anal until you’re wanting to stay anal only just as much as your boyfriend enjoys it.

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