Message: Learning How to Orgasm Without Touching My Clit
fat-femme-and-dtf: Any advice for learning how to come without clitoral stimulation? I really love anal penetration but I’ve never orgasmed without touching my clit.
Try going without your clit for a while and just focusing on what feels good with anal stimulation. If you feel something growing that feels like it could become an orgasm, keep doing that. It can take practice, and sometimes a while without using your clit, both to become more aroused—which makes orgasming easier—and to stop providing such an easy shortcut to orgasm that can make it hard to develop other paths to orgasm.
Another technique is to continue using your clit but over time reducing it to the bare minimum needed to cum and touching it less and less until you only need the slightest touch at the point of orgasm, and then work to minimize or eliminate even that.
And another trick some women use is to drink water before a session so you need to pee, which applies internal pressure to pleasurable areas, repositions things a little bit, and generally makes you more sensitive, which can make orgasm easier.
Good luck!
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