How to Have Double Anal Sex & the Double Anal Only Lifestyle

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Double anal sex, where two partners penetrate and have sex with an anus simultaneously, can be a highly satisfying and intense form of sexual activity. However, it’s important to approach double anal with caution and preparation, as it can be a significant step up from single anal in terms of intensity and potential discomfort. This guide will provide advice on how to advance from single anal to double anal and how to transition into making double anal the norm or even to go double anal only with two other partners or with one partner and a dildo.

Benefits of Double Anal Sex

One of the main reasons why people enjoy double anal sex is the intensity of the sensation. Double anal sex can provide a more intense and satisfying experience, as two partners can stimulate different areas of the anus and rectum simultaneously. This can lead to a heightened sense of pleasure and fullness that just is not possible with single anal sex.

Additionally, some individuals find that double anal sex can lead to more intense and satisfying orgasms, and the act of having two partners inserted into the rectum at the same time can create a deeper sense of intimacy and trust between all three partners, as it requires a high level of communication and trust, while also providing the thrill of pleasuring two men simultaneously with one hole.

For some, it can be a major kink or fetish, a way to express their sexuality and desires. For others, it can be a way to explore their limits and push themselves to new heights of pleasure and intimacy with their partners.

Everyone’s reasons for enjoying double anal sex may be different and that’s okay.

Advancing from Single Anal Sex to Double Anal Sex

Before attempting double anal sex, it is important to have a good level of experience and comfort with single anal sex. This means being able to relax the anal sphincter and accommodate a penis or toy comfortably and regularly without discomfort or pain. If you are new to anal sex, it is generally recommended to spend more time mastering single anal before attempting double anal unless you have a particularly elastic anus and can stretch it wide without any pain or discomfort.

It is also important to use plenty of lube during double anal sex, as the anus and rectum do not self-lubricate like the vagina, and with the larger insertion of two penises inside the rectum moving independently, that extra lubricant is particularly needed.

As with first starting anal, it’s just as important to take things slowly when first attempting double anal sex. This means starting with one partner and a small toy or finger before attempting double penetration with two partners, and gradually doing it more and more frequently to get used to a bigger stretch. Two dildos can also be a good option. It is also important to communicate with your partners throughout the experience, and to stop if you experience any pain or discomfort. You can practice for a little bit with double anal and then return to single anal for a while before trying it again.

Transitioning to the Double Anal Only Lifestyle

Once you have become comfortable with double anal sex and are practicing it regularly, you may be interested in transitioning into making double anal sex the norm and going double anal only with two partners or with one partner and a dildo (or even just two dildos if you don’t have a partner).

One way to ease into the double anal only lifestyle is to set aside dedicated double anal only days or weeks where you engage in double anal sex exclusively but without committing to it long term at first. As you start to do this several times, you can gradually increase the frequency and length of these dedicated periods until double anal sex becomes the norm for you and your partners and you stop single anal altogether.

It’s important to remember that the double anal only lifestyle may not be for everyone, and it’s important to make sure that you and your partners are comfortable and consenting to this lifestyle choice. It’s also important to understand that the double anal only lifestyle may not be sustainable for everyone, and it’s okay to change your mind and return to single anal sex if you find that double anal only is not working for you. It can be difficult to maintain if you do not have two partners who are always available to do double anal every time.

One good trick in a double anal only relationship with two partners is to allow oral sex when only one partner is around and let them use your mouth in those situations, but when both are present, keep things focused on double anal.

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