Forum: Vaginal Virgin in Traditional Russian Community
My name is Ani, I am 23 female.
I am a vaginal virgin, doing oral and anal sex since 18 years old.
I was born in Transcaucasia in one of post-soviet republics, we are christians but we have a tradition that girls must stay virgin till marriage. Losing virginity before marriage causes scandal and shame, especially in small towns and villages. If a girl loses virginity before marriage, many people will point fingers and call her slut. Also we have a tradition when after the wedding night the groom’s mother checks the bed sheet for blood and if there is blood then she gifts a red apple to the bride’s mother.
After finishing school I entered a university in Russia and came to Moscow for study. Here I got freedom from parents and traditions, of course I wanted to try sex with men here but after study I needed to return home virgin. I wanted to try blowjob only. In Moscow I met my first man, he was 43, he understood the situation and kindly promised me to keep my virginity. I started sex datings with him and I did only blowjob as i wanted and i liked to do it very much. At the fourth dating he said me that I have a great ass and I must do anal sex, also he said that he prefers anal sex this is why he easily agreed to keep me virgin. I did not want to try anal sex but he insisted. First months I dod not like anal sex at all, it was too hard for me but i did it for his pleasure. However I did not want to break relationship because I felt safety for my virginity and also because he helped me financially. My parents are very poor and they could not send me money for living. After about 2 months of intensive anal sex I began to take in ass much easier. After about 2 months more I began to enjoy anal sex. I do not get anal orgasms but I get high excitation and big pleasure. I get orgasms only from masturbation alone and from eating my pussy in sex, but I do not need to get ograsm every time, I like the process of anal sex more than getting orgasm.
After my first man I met other men and I always looked for men who prefer anal sex. Now I live with my groom, he is my 7th man and he is my first love, we plan to marry this year, and I am still virgin. He loves anal sex more than vaginal, and he highly appreciates that I love it too and that I do anal sex so easily. After marriage I will lose virginity but I have no idea about staying anal only. I do not know because i have never tried vaginal sex, but I am sure that anal sex will be at the first place as big pleasure for both and as birth control.