Guest Post: My Anal Only Bucket List
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Serve Anal Only Clients as a Sex Worker
As a sex worker, my job is primarily to cater to the fantasies of my clients. I have little control over what those are and most of the time, they already know what they want when they approach me to book an appointment.
That said, some of my clients certainly do have anal sex fetishes. And that’s fantastic! Needless to say, they are automatically bumped to the top of my list.
Unfortunately, I don’t have a large enough group of clients with an anal fetish to exclusively offer services to them while still being able to fully support myself financially.
That part is something I could probably overcome with enough time and patience. It wouldn’t be impossible to slowly build a list of steady clients who love anal sex.
But the bigger problem with that is the majority of those clients I have with an anal fetish also seem to expect vaginal sex as well. I only have two reliable clients who are truly anal only.
Alas, it would be the ultimate accomplishment if I were able to pull this off!
Have 100% Anal Only Orgasms
While each woman is different, I know I can’t be the only one who struggles to master the art of the 100% anal only orgasm.
While there is absolutely no doubt that anal sex feels far superior to vaginal in terms of pleasure, neither type of penetration has ever resulted in orgasms for me.
Which is actually kind of okay, I have come to realize over time.
I know some women who are anal only still include clitoral stimulation in their sex lives in order to climax, and there is nothing wrong with going that route at all!
But I happen to be in the no clit stimulation camp, which may simply mean I end up not experiencing orgasms at all.
While this might not be acceptable to all women, I have arrived at the conclusion that the pleasure I feel from anal is more intense and far preferable to any orgasms I could have by stimulating my clit.
Get My Boyfriend to Commit to Anal Only
Don’t misunderstand me here, my boyfriend loves anal sex as much as I do!
In fact, according to him, it was when I told him to put it in my ass during our very first hookup that he claims was the moment he knew he wanted to marry me someday.
All jokes aside though, we are both all about it. But to be honest, I have not brought up the idea of being strictly anal with him yet. Granted, we have only been together about six months so far.
It’s not that I’m worried he will react in a negative way, but I want to be sure that he understands where I’m coming from fully before I broach the subject.
I guess it’s just got to be the right time and setting and I need to be totally confident in how I communicate the idea to him.
I don’t imagine it will be much longer before I bring it up, so wish me luck!
Get a Vaginal Chastity Piercing
I first found out about this type of body art several years ago when I stumbled upon a couple of Tumblr blogs featuring photos of all the variations available.
While I had heard of clit piercings, I had no idea about chastity piercings or how many different styles were possible.
While imagining myself in the chair about to be pierced makes me wince a good deal at the pain involved, the main reason I haven’t taken the leap yet is that I’m pretty shy about this sort of thing with strangers.
I’m not the type of gal who would just walk into a body piercing parlor and walk right up to the desk and ask if vaginal chastity piercings are a thing they offer. I’m just not comfortable with that situation.
Personally, I’d need to do enough research privately beforehand or get a recommendation from someone I know in real life before approaching any place where I could get something like this done.
But once I have a trusted recommendation, I think I would like to get one.
Of course, this list is just the tip of the iceberg for me.
Ideally, I’d like to publish more about my love for anal sex and help to promote its acceptance as a healthy and desirable way of life to help others discover better sex sooner in life than I did!
My hope is that I can make some small contribution to normalizing the lifestyle on a greater societal level.