Reading about your AO development has been a treat. If I could provide some input, it’s that I think with all this anal and oral anytime you’ve promised your current boyfriend, it’s changing your body and making you crave more. It’s perfectly natural for women who enjoy anal sex to feel slutty and although you have these romantic ideas of a relationship, it’s okay to expand your sexual identity. Embrace being an anal slut. What could go wrong with your ex and your current boyfriend having sex with you? They both seem to be very interested in your sexual wellbeing. Both know not to touch your pussy. I think you should give it at least one try so that your current boyfriend can learn different ways of engaging in anal/oral from your ex as well.

I remember being younger and just wanting to jackhammer girls’ assholes, but not every girl could take my cock like that. I’m like your current boyfriend – larger, thicker than most. My favorite thing is to jackhammer her ass in doggystyle! Trust me when I say this: your ass was meant to get fucked. If you can take a man reaming your ass and giving many blowjobs that include throatfucking, you might as well try double anal with a second guy you trust to see if you’re into it. Being throatfucked and assfucked at the same time might be a sensation you might want to explore.

I’m glad your ex taught you about ass to mouth. I think most AO men expect it, that’s true, but many times it doesn’t happen because women form a mental barrier. The anticipated “dirty” taste and smell isn’t what they expect once they get up close with their own nose and tongue. I had a fuckbuddy tell me she wanted ass juice on my cock every time she gave me a blowjob. So sex with her was always anal first, then oral. Getting hard just thinking about it….
So was that an easy transition for you to suck cock out of your ass? Is it something you liked immediately or became accustomed to for your boyfriend?

I agree with analonlylifestyle, you should try it and see if you like it. I can tell you both men will be very pleased by you embracing your slutty role.

It sounds like you’re mostly concerned about liking sex “too much” and worrying that makes you a slut or that you’ll be judged as such by your boyfriend and ex. The reality is that it’s normal and healthy to enjoy, love and crave sex, and it’s society that puts ideas of being a slut onto women as a means of controlling those normal urges and desires.

You mentioned that you always end up getting turned on loving sex whether you’re in the mood when you get started or not. That’s not a bad thing, it shows that you have a high level of sexual adaptability and can be very compatible with partners who have a high sex drive.

I think you should trust your boyfriend and ex and give them the benefit of the doubt. If the idea of the threesome appeals to you, agree to it and give it a try. If you end up not liking it, you don’t have to do it again, but it sounds like it has a lot of potential benefits for you to explore, and if it helps your boyfriend learn from your ex, that can be good for everyone. It sounds like they both want to do this, and if you do too, I don’t think you need to worry about them thinking less of you for agreeing to it.

It definitely sounds like your body has accepted anal as normal and natural, but what part of your mind hasn’t accepted that, and in what way?

I agree this could be a great opportunity to try and explore double anal sex with the two of them, and that can be a very incredible experience for women. If you’ve never experienced pain from anal sex, it sounds like you’re very naturally well suited to anal, and probably could do double anal with little trouble as well. If you have any dildos, you could try and practice with two of them at a time, or you could insert one while having sex with your boyfriend. If you don’t have a dildo, try inserting some fingers in your ass alongside your boyfriend during sex. This can start getting you used to a larger stretch in preparation for both of them in your ass. Be sure to use plenty of lube when trying double anal. Otherwise, just start slow and relax around them and then have them start to pick up the pace and find a good rhythm.

So, in summary, my opinion is that if you want it and they want it, you should try it and see what it’s like. If everyone enjoys it, consider doing it more regularly. If it doesn’t work out as well as people hoped, thank everyone for trying and at least you know what it was like to try.

I think the bottom line is, I feel like I’m enjoying this way too much. I’m a bit conservative, I had very romantic ideas about my first relationship, how I wanted to give myself completely to my first boyfriend, and in a way, I did. But he made me discover sex in a way I didn’t expect at all, and now I’m confused.

Take my relation with my boyfriend: I told him what you told me to say, that he could have oral and anal with me as much as he wanted. I said that because I was scared he would reject me. He took it literally: he can ask for a blowjob or take me into position for anal without warning, out of the blue. Sometimes, I’m not into a sexual mood at all when he asks that, but since I promised, I’m doing it… and I always end up loving it. And by the time he cums into me, I’m really hot, and I want more. I feel like a slut, and I feel weird about it.

I’m very attracted to the idea of this threesome. I loved sex with my ex, I loved the way he directed me and always gave me instructions and explained stuff to me, up to the way I should ache my back, or moan, or smile. My boyfriend is new to anal sex, and probably needs advice and direction I can’t give, my ex can probably change that. I’m fantasizing about this threesome ever since my boyfriend suggested it. But I’m scared they’ll think I’m just a slut, and I think I’m even more scared of loving it.

Maybe my body has accepted anal as the right and normal way to have sex, to the point any contact with my pussy gives me anxiety, but part of my mind hasn’t accepted it. Maybe I should trust my boyfriend and ex more. I don’t know.

About your question: he suggested they’d try to both take my ass at the same time. I’ve had anal very regularly for one year and a half and it never hurt, and I adapted very well to my boyfriend’s “jackhammer” way to fuck, so maybe I could do it, I don’t know. He said they won’t insist if it hurts, but I wondered if there was any precaution to be taken.

I’d love to have your opinion.