Message: Finding the Right Butt Plug
Anonymous: Do you have any suggestions on finding the right plug for my girl? She really enjoys anal play and I really enjoy doing it to her. I just want to make her happy. Thanks for all you do.
Using fingers or other toys, figure out about what size of anal penetration she’s currently comfortable with, and find a plug that’s a little wider than that at the widest point, so that it gives her a little push but when it’s inside is still comfortable.
The Tantus Ryder, Implicit Creations Core Plug (3 sizes) and others in that size range are what I often recommend as a starter plug. You don’t want to start too small, or it’ll just get replaced quickly, so work up to ~1.5″ diameter first and then try for a good small/medium plug.