Message: Anal Sex and Staying A Virgin Until Marriage, Part 2
Anonymous: Thank you for your quick response. I read many posts on your blog and it answered all my other questions, my boyfriend already read a lot of it too, so I guess we’ll do it very shortly. I already have an small anal douche I carry around. To be honest, I would have been fine with no sex at all before marriage, but that’s not the sort of world we live in, and it doesn’t seem wrong to me to want to make my boyfriend happy. He’s cute and popular and had other options, but he’s been patient with me.
As long as you’re happy and willing to do it, then go for it.
The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following response.
mrsnewfiesluts: Cute and popular are not the greatest reasons. You should want to do it, you should like/love him, and he should respect your feelings on the subject. If you can’t discuss sex with your partner, you’re not ready for it