Anonymous: One problem I’ve had with sex with anyone, is that I can’t feel a damned thing down there. I still enjoy it greatly but it makes my boyfriend feel inadequate and he can’t enjoy it as much. We both kind of have an aversion to the idea of anal as we both have bowel problems (surely that could be useful, though) but do you think it would give us the pleasure we’re both after?
It’s definitely worth a try! Everyone is different, but a lot of women who don’t get much sensation out of vaginal sex find that anal can give them the pleasure that they need. I’ve talked with many women over the years who couldn’t enjoy vaginal for various reasons and who finally had a satisfying sex life after going anal only.
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hypnotic-sliver: My cunt is on the larger side and my main play partner is on the smaller side so vaginal doesn’t do a lot for me by itself, though some positions are better. Usually I prefer anal with him.