Message: Girl on Tinder Said Being Anal Only Is Disrespectful
Anonymous: Matched with a girl on tinder a few days ago we started talking and eventually the topic of sex came up and I mentioned that I only have anal sex and I won’t do vaginal and she went on a rampage about how I’m an asshole and I’m disrespectful for expecting her to jump right into anal and I responded saying “im not expecting anything, I told you my preference and you don’t prefer that and that’s fine, if anyone here is being disrespectful it’s you for calling me an asshole for having a preference”
You’re right—there is nothing wrong with having an anal only preference and only having anal sex. You were being open and honest about your needs up front. If she isn’t interested, that’s perfectly fine. At least now you both know that you aren’t sexually compatible.