Month: November 2016

Last Day of No Pussy November 2016!

Oh, the disappointment. The end of No Pussy November 2016 is near and we’ll have to wait another whole year for the next one! But don’t despair too much, even if you missed out this year, that doesn’t mean you can’t still participate—after all, while No Pussy November as a yearly event is what’s widely promoted here to encourage new people to try anal only for the first time, the reality is that every month is anal only month! It’s the idea of a month-long challenge that’s most important, and you can try that any time you want. Pick a date, and challenge yourself to go anal only for a month from that date. That’s all it really ever takes to start.

For those who did join on No Pussy November 2016, the end of the month doesn’t mean it has to be the end of the fun. If you had a really good time and feel like you could keep going—do so! Your anal only fun doesn’t have to be limited to this one month, and if the month trial period revealed to you that you really enjoy anal only, just keep on going, riding on your momentum from No Pussy November. And be sure to keep sending in your updates, whether you’re ending the experiment with NPN for now, or continuing anal only from here.

We had wonderful participation this year, possibly the best yet, and I want to thank everyone who took part and gave the anal only lifestyle a shot, whether for the full month and beyond or just for a short time. Here’s to an even better No Pussy November 2017!

Message: The Anus is Not Designed to be Fucked

Anonymous: I know you have read this thousand times. Just for the record: I love anal. But how do you explain fucking a hole that is supposed to be use for eject faeces? Isn’t the pussy the anatomic place to fuck? The anus is just not designed to be fucked.

What’s there to explain? Evolution cares about reproduction when it comes to sex, and yes, you’re right, for reproductive sex, vaginas are where it’s at. But the vast, vast, vast majority of human sexual activity is non-reproductive. And while the anus may not primarily exist at an evolutionary level for sexual purposes, the reality is that it—just like the mouth—works really well for sex, and can provide and receive a lot of pleasure, more than vaginas in many cases. This may not have been by “design” or “intent” (never mind the fact that design and intent have nothing to do with it) but it is the reality.

Anal sex is just better for a lot of people. Yes, it can take some more practice and preparation, but the payoff is worth it. It might not be “natural”, but humans have a long tradition of figuring out new and better uses for existing things.

Inspired By NPNWife, My Wife Agrees to Try Anal Only

xqm43: My delightfully kinky and submissive wife amazed me today, with her willing embrace of anal only this morning. Maybe not for a full month, but read on.

Some background: some couples are into orgasm denial for her. I am just the opposite. I insist, I require, I demand that she give me all the orgasms she can. I call her my cum slut to her face. I warm her up by telling her humiliating fantasies of her being exposed as a wanton cum slut in public, of being watched and then taken by many men. When I start caressing her full breasts and sucking on her hard nipples, she starts to cum. Yes, just from an arousing fantasy and having her tits sucked.

NPNWife’s postings have been inspiring. I have been fantasizing using just my wife’s ass for some weeks now. She enjoys anal occasionally after being thoroughly satisfied in her pussy. It is very intense for her. But it hurts afterward so it is usually a rare gift to me from her. This morning I told her it was No Pussy November and that I planned to only use her ass today. I didn’t ask permission, just told her. She laughed and asked where I had heard about NPN. I said on a kinky blog I read. She said, “Sounds good.” Wow! No, “Maybe. I’ll think about it.” Just agreement. I love my wife.

She had already cum some from the tit sucking, so I moved up to her mouth and said, “Suck me, bitch,” and put my cock in her mouth. I then grabbed the lube, put it on my fingers, and reached down below her pussy to her tight ass, and rubbed my well-lubed fingers across her hole until she came again. I called her a “Good girl” and said how much I love it when she cums on my cock with her mouth like that.

Then I moved down between her legs and started to lube her ass with more lube and two fingers. I told her I was completely ignoring her pussy, and she smiled. I told her I was stretching her open so I could force my cock deep in her forbidden passage and she came and came. I told her my favorite position was her on her side, and had her roll over. When she is on her back with her legs in the air, she can resist my fucking her ass by pushing back on me. With her on her side, and me kneeling behind her, she is about as unable to resist as you can imagine. I lubed her up with my thumb this time, reaching as far up inside her as I could force it, and she came again. She begged me to fuck her ass. Who was I to say no?

I slid into her, gave her a minute to adjust, and then started taking her. I reminded her that I was completely ignoring her pussy and just pleasuring myself with her forbidden passage and she came again. I called her a wanton anal slut, and she said, “Yes, I am!” She encouraged me to fuck her as deep as I could. I told her I was getting ready to cum and that I was going to squirt my cum deep inside her. She came hard, and that sent me over the edge, the most intense orgasm either of us have had in weeks.

Afterward she asked about the name No Pussy November. I told her the name was for the alliteration, and that it had recently been Anal-Only August. She laughed and started to make up names: Just Anal January, Fuck Ass February, etc. She said, “I’m glad we’re near the end of the month.” As if agreeing that she wanted to participate even though I had not asked her.

I have been amazed by how open, how turned on she was to pussy denial today. Men, treat your wives to your fantasies. Use your mind and your words to turn her on completely, and let her know your fantasies and how you want her to fulfill them. Young, single women are pursued and desired. Old, married women deserve the same from us. Chase her around the bed and let her be your all-in-all to you.

Message: No Pussy November Wife, Part 7

NPNWife: This Thanksgiving, I’m thankful for trying new things! Like I said last time, closing my pussy really opened my mind. My husband and I have been talking about—and experimenting with—lots of other fantasies we’ve both had but never brought up. I mentioned going out with his friends last Sunday to watch the game. He showed more of my pics/videos there, while I was with them. Lots of questions and compliments. My pussy was visibly soaking through my pants. They joked about how I wouldn’t get any relief, which just made me wetter.

When we got home, I was beginning for my husband’s cock in my ass. When he was fucking me, he was asking how I liked showing the guys my videos, and I admitted how much it turned me on, obviously. He started talking about fucking my ass in front of them, so they could see in person how I gave up my cunt for him, and it trigged a huge anal orgasm for me. And I started begging him to do it, to show my ass off in front of them. After he came he asked if I was serious or if it was orgasm talk. I told him I wasn’t sure and asked how he felt. He got hard again talking about showing my ass to them in person, fingering me, fucking me, making me do ATM while they watched. And I took him back inside my ass and told him that this was his month, and if he was sure he wanted to do that, then he could. I admitted how NPN had me feeling so incredibly submissive to him, how I wanted to do anything to turn him on. This time he came inside me.

It hasn’t happened yet. But he’s been sending every video/picture he takes to his friend Charlie (who I mentioned previously). That’s his “safety” friend, that he trusts most. Yesterday, he made me text with Charlie while his dick was in my ass, asking him if he liked the videos, if he wanted to watch me get fucked in person, if he wanted to see my asshole spread open for my husband’s cock… it was so fucking hot. Anyway, only a couple days of November to go. Not sure what’ll happen next.

Message: Things To Masturbate With

Anonymous: Hiii I have a question? I can’t get any actual toys so I was wondering if you have any tips for things to put in my pussy and butt? thanks if you answer I’ll be happy for any ideas and tips❤️

Actual toys intended for anal use are always going to be best, but many people make do with other objects. You do have to take more care with many things, because without a flared base there is a risk that they can slip all the way inside, so do make sure to avoid that happening.

Fingers are an obvious choice—they’re easily accessible, you can’t lose them inside, and you can put a few together to have something bigger to insert.

Various vegetables—carrots, cucumbers, etc., can work, but be sure to wash them off with soap and water first, and trim off anything sharp.

Thin bottles, hairbrush handles, and things like sharpies can work. Again, avoid anything sharp or with rough edges.

Don’t put things in your pussy.

Message: I Thought I Was a Freak For Preferring Anal Only

Anonymous: I just want to thank you for running this blog. I’m 24, female and so “fixated” on anal-only at this point it is pretty much an orientation. I thought I was a freak, and I thought I was alone in this for along time. Just, thank you. I spent a long time thinking there was something wrong with me, and also that i would never find someone. It’s good to know I’m not alone.

Thank you for the very kind words! I’m so glad that you enjoy it and found it helpful in making you aware that you weren’t at all alone and that there are many others out there with the same preferences and desires. That’s always been one of my main goals with these blogs/sites—helping all us anal only lovers out there realize we aren’t freaks no one will ever be compatible. That’s how I used to feel as well, and discovering how many other people actually shared the same anal only desire was a huge awakening for me.