Anonymous: hi, I have been trying to do anal for some time but I couldn’t do it so far because I am so tense and can’t relax when i try to do it.I really want to do it specially when I watch anal porn. do you have any advice for me or a porn clip that will make me loosen up and relax even hallucinate and dream about it. thanks
I don’t have any specific porn recommendations—just watch lots of anal porn and continue to get inspired.
Start small, with just a lubricated finger while watching anal porn, relaxing, and playing with yourself in other ways that feel good. Massage your ass with the tip of the finger and keep trying to slide it inside a little bit, then back out. Repeat until you can fit the finger in. Once one finger is easy, try it with two, etc. and by continuing to gradually go up in size like this, you can get to the point that anal sex will be easy.