Month: August 2014


How Do I Get My Girl To Crave Anal?

Anonymous: How do I start to turn my little girl into an anal whore? (We already do anal and stuff and she loves it, but I want her to think of her asshole as her new cunt, like you do.)

bindme-grindme: First off just

communication. It’ll help a lot, it’s necessary. I’m not good to talk to about this because I sort of trained myself, but yeah.

Maybe start to talk about how much more you love anal, talk to her about it. Start fucking her ass even more. Play with her clit so she associates anal=pleasure. Have her be plugged up during the day or at certain times…. It depends on lots of little things. Make her feel good about her soon-to-be cunt. Eat it out like a pussy!

I for one also go for edging and stuff too. I’m a fan of light humiliation/degradation, to each their own.

Discussion of the Day: Who prefers anal sex over Vaginal sex?

Predictably, many people answer that they prefer vaginal, but there are some great responses from those few who do prefer it up the ass.

I prefer Anal! I think it feels more intense then Vaginal. We have been together for over 10 years it’s almost always been pussy until I finally figured out how to get comfortable enough to have Anal(2 years ago), ever since it’s been about half and half.

Then there’s this unfortunate response:

I’m afraid that if I start doing it more I may like it more, or possibly my husband may like it more

Women need to get over the hangup that vaginal sex is proper sex and that something is wrong with them or they’re less of a woman if they prefer anal. If she’s afraid she’s going to like anal too much if she has it too much, she already does prefer anal and is just too afraid to admit it. That’s unhealthy and it’s a damn shame to deny yourself something you love and prefer (and that your partner probably prefers too). Just admit your preferences to yourself and go with them. Life’s too short to be concerned about what’s the “right” or “proper” way to fuck. Fuck the way you want to.

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Discussion of the Day: How Long Have You Worn a Butt Plug?

Someone on EdenFantasys’ forum asked:

How long have you wore a butt plug for?

Answers vary a lot, from a few hours to days. This response is by far the best, however:

I wore one for a week straight. I know for a fact, since we were on a cruise and I wore a different jeweled one, my hubby surprised me with each day. The last day it had a lovely ruby on the end…and it turns out it’s a real Ruby! He was spoiling me for our anniversary. Not a ruby I will flash for anyone but him, I should say!

I knew he would be visiting my tush at least a few times a day, so I kept the plug lubed by removing it every few hours and applying some thick gel lube, which hubby carried at all times in his pocket for me. When I would go swimming or doing any activity that might make me sweat, I would apply some more lube right after, so my tail end stayed stretched, happy and ready for my hubby to come in and play happily the whole trip.

Other then the lube sessions about every hour, and, of course, to use the bathroom, I wore it continually, even to sleep, although most nights, my hubby replaced the plug with his lovely penis instead. Yummy.

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When Did You Realize You Wanted to Go Anal Only?

Anonymous: When did your first discover your love of anal? When did you first realize you wanted to turn your asshole into a cunt and ignore your old one? Why?

bindme-grindme: I loved anal early on, especially after watching or reading porns, etc, and then tried it.

An old mistress wanted me to only use my ass, that good sluts/slaves only use their mouths and assholes, and i sort of stuck with it. That and certain gay porn blogs that focus on pussyboys influenced me, and certain lesbian stories too. I love it, though! I’d never go back to using my old cunt, not after the work gone into redirecting my pleasure center.

Discussion of the Day: For those ladies who allow anal penetration as a regular part of your sex life, how much do you enjoy this activity?

The discussion begins with a poll of women who have done anal play or had anal sex on a regular basis. The vast majority of the women who voted say anal is as good as vaginal, followed by a few who prefer anal.

There are some good replies, a couple of which follow:

After 23+ years of resistance my wife ‘gave in’. To me the shocking part is that in less than 6 months she turned into a ‘butt slut’ – she absolutely loves it and has learned to orgasm from anal sex rather easily. We are now nearly 95% anal vs 5% vaginal!

I used to be completely turned off at the thought until I got together with my current bf. I am more comfortable with him than I ever have been past bf’s. I have also found that if you relax and really pay attention to the different feeling you can find the ways and positions that you like. Now that I am comfortable with it I could not imagine my sex life without anal. The orgasm is amazing and it almost makes you feel a little closer to your partner.

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New Kik Account

Update: While this account remains active as of 2018, it is not my primary means of communication anymore and I would suggest instead joining our Forum or Discord server to chat with me and the greater anal only community.

If you’re interested in chatting about anal sex or the anal only lifestyle, feel free to use my new kik account: analsexonly.

My Pleasure Center Has Been Redirected to My Asshole

bindme-grindme: one of my last dommes was very keen on keeping my ass plugged, fucking my ass and only allowing me to touch my clit while she did…

Basically, I don’t use dildos on my cunt anymore. My pleasure center’s been redirected to my asshole instead of my cunthole.

I just thought people would like that <3 it makes me feel so much more submissive to have my ass filled instead.

My Wide Ass

thepublicproperty: In the last couple of weeks, I have experienced the same thing 3 times:  I am serving someone I just met, and he shoves his cock in my ass in the middle of it without asking! They didn’t know if I do anal or not.. This never happened before.

So I asked the last guy what made him think it is ok not to ask. He said ‘your ass looks more loose than your pussy, so I assumed it is a regular thing for you’. I was confused before his answer, but now I’m very proud of myself. I started to lose sense in the ass. I’m able to serve any size now, as hard as they want. I’m a good public whore!