Message: Time to Ask Her to Always Skip Her Pussy?

Anonymous: I have a question for you – 9 times out of 10 when we have sex (mostly her on top) after a bit my girlfriend reaches back and puts me in her ass to finish. She’s pre-lubing her ass and I’m really liking this – would it be the right move to say to her we can always skip the pussy? Is that what she wants? I can’t tell. I know I’d be happy if that’s what she wanted but it feels really awkward asking…

Why not take things slow and just suggest the possibility of a several day period (a weekend you spend together?) where you have anal only? Say you’ve noticed she seems to enjoy you finishing in her ass and ask if she’d like to experiment with more anal and have a sexy/naughty weekend where you just have anal (and oral) sex. Don’t jump right into wanting to go fully anal only unless she also brings up that desire on her own, but if she agrees to try it and enjoys it, make it into something you do regularly, or expand it where once a month you have an anal only week. If she’s up for doing something like that, you can see where it goes from there and talk to her about whether she prefers anal over vaginal and if she’d like to give up vaginal entirely and just have anal.

Related Posts

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.